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So how do you start a speech with an
icebreaker?
The main thing is you can't seem overly
manipulative of people.
00:08
You shouldn't start off with how many of you
would like to make more money because that
seems cheesy. It seems like you're just
overtly manipulating people.
00:18
I also don't like it when certain
motivational speakers say, Well, turn to the
person next to you and tell them your five
greatest aspirations in
life and why you haven't succeeded.
00:29
That's just too personal.
00:31
You've got to make it relevant to who you
are, what you're about, what you're trying to
convey. So if, for example, you are someone
who helps people with their elevator
speech, you may just want to ask people as
an icebreaker, turn to the person next to
you and tell them in 30 seconds what you do
for a living.
00:50
And then ask a couple of people, What did
your partner say?
That could be an interesting way of getting
people to talk.
00:57
Getting them to think about the concepts
you're going to be
revealing today and engaging people in a way
that doesn't seem
can phony or overly manipulative.