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The best way to start off your presentation
is by saying something interesting to
your audience, not about yourself.
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You don't have to start with a joke.
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It doesn't have to be something amazingly
emotional and compelling.
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But what you do need to start off with is
something of interest to your audience.
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Now, what of most speakers do they start off
with?
Good morning. As you know, my name is this,
my title is this.
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And you may not be aware, but we're in the
following cities that you don't care about
because you're in this city.
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And I'm very happy to be here today.
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That's how most speakers start.
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And guess what? It's deadly dull.
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You already either know who they are and
their name, rank and title, or you
don't care. At that stage of the
relationship, do you care if the person is
happy to be there?
The whole thing comes across as phony
baloney, trite,
cliché. So most people.
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Start checking email, they figure, Oh, the
speaker hasn't really started.
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I'm not really missing anything.
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And you know what? They're right.
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Here's the problem, though.
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Once you actually start your speech, a
minute or two, and you've already lost the
audience, so what I recommend is dispense
with
all the phony baloney.
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Thank you very much.
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What an honor to be here.
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Bah bah bah bah. Start off where you
normally would have started two or 3
minutes into your presentation.
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Start by giving some piece of content, some
idea, some
message of interest to your audience.
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And if you start with a story even better
now, if you want to thank the person who
invited you or introduced you, fine.
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Do it in the middle of the speech.
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Do it near the end.
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People aren't expecting it then.
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Don't do it in the beginning.
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This one thing will really make you stand
out as different from other speakers.
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Because most speakers, even if they're
polished, even if their
suit and tie or their dress is perfect, even
if they have good eye contact the way they
start their speeches.
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Me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me.
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I did this. And here's why I'm legitimate
and here's why I'm great.
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Nobody cares about that yet.
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You can stand out by saying something
interesting, useful,
relevant to your audience.
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Do that, and you will hook them, and they
will stay with you for the rest of your
presentation.