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So if you've never spoken to more than 20
people before, 50 people all of a sudden
seem like a really big crowd.
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If you're used to speaking in front of 500
people, then maybe for you the threshold is
5000 people.
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But for most of us there is some threshold
of an audience size where we think,
Wow, this is different and this is scary.
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Well, let me share with you the secrets you
really need to know, for starters.
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It's not that you need to really do things
that differently, speaking to a
large audience, from what you do when you're
speaking to five or ten people.
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The problem is, your body is going to get
nervous and tense up.
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So what happens is people change themselves
when they get in front of a larger audience,
and they change themselves for the worse,
they get scared.
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So instead of walking around, gesturing,
naturally, they freeze up.
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Instead of being conversational.
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Giving examples.
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Telling stories.
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They feel like they need to play it safe
because they might forget.
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And they start reading a script or reading
bullet points, which is the
kiss of death. So, so much of being a great
speaker
in front of a large audience is really doing
exactly the same thing you do
when you're speaking to a small, comfortable
audience and simply not changing yourself.
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Part of it is just getting more comfortable
by doing it more often, part of it by
rehearsing in the same venue.
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If you've never spoken on a large, elevated
platform or stage, get to
the place the day before, or at least
several hours earlier when no one's there and
practice on that stage.
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And of course you need to practice on video
, so you have an image of yourself
coming across exactly the way you want.
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There are a few minor technical differences.
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When you're speaking to a really large
group, you need longer
pauses. It takes time for your sound to
filter around a
large auditorium.
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Walk a little more, create a little more
variety if you're on a large stage,
that can help.
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And if you just make everything a little bit
bigger, more energy, slightly
bigger hand motions, everything sort of
bigger.
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But don't make the mistake of yelling,
because the problem a lot of people have is
they see an audience member who's now 300
yards away.
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So they feel like they have to speak like
this, projecting.
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And that's awful.
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That can wear out your audience.
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It seems like you're shouting, you're going
to have a microphone or you better have a
microphone if you're speaking to a large
audience.
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So you want a conversational tone in your
voice.
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That's one of the telltale signs when you
see people speaking at major national
political conventions.
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They're not regular speakers talking to 5000
people.
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So they tend to shout, My fellow American,
and it just makes them
seem phony and staged and contrived.
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So you want that full, normal,
conversational tone of your voice.
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Do that and you'll be great.
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Here's the other thing about speaking to
large audiences because it scares people so
much. If you do it, and you do it
competently, people are going to think you're
a genius. They're going to be like, Oh my
gosh, I could never do that.
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And really, all you're doing is the same
thing is when you talk to 20
people. So if you have the opportunity, take
it.