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If you really want to know what captivates
people in a voice,
if you really want to know what makes people
think.
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I got to listen to this person.
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It's not about having a deep voice.
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It's not about any one particular accent.
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It's not necessarily about speed as long as
you're not too fast or too slow.
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The thing that will resonate with audiences,
whether it's one person on a social
basis or 1000 people at a convention speech,
the one thing that
really stands out in voices and makes them
more attractive is
confidence. And that's something anyone can
have.
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Now, how do you get that?
I have found the number one way to really
gain confidence in what you're
saying is you have to practice and you have
to record it if you're giving a
speech. It's not enough to audio record it.
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You need to use the video function on your
cell phone, on your webcam or a
camcorder. You need to practice your speech
on video.
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Listen to it.
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Listen not only for the voice stuff, but the
substance, how you're coming across
every aspect of style and substance.
01:19
You need to critique that speech and then do
it
again. Do it again on video.
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The stuff you don't like, do less of that.
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So that pile goes down, the stuff you do
like do more of that.
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So the pile goes up.
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Keep practicing your speech.
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Keep recording it again and again and again
until you like what
you see and hear.
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I know it could take some time, but it's
worth it if you really want to come across
your best. So that's your challenge.
01:55
You've got to keep practicing your speech
until you can point to it and say, Wow,
that guy is fantastic, or That woman is
fantastic.
02:02
I would listen to that person.
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If that weren't me, I would want to listen
to that speech.
02:08
That's the attitude you need to have going
into
any speaking opportunity.
02:15
It doesn't matter if it's leaving a
voicemail to someone.
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It doesn't matter if it's one on one pitch
for a new job or for venture
capital or a presentation to ten colleagues
on a monday morning staff
meeting, or 200 colleagues within your
industry,
or 100,000 or 100 million people
watching you on an international TV
broadcast?
It's exactly the same thing.
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Practice on video until you like what you
see
in what you don't see.
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If you do that, it becomes extraordinarily
difficult to be
nervous if you're not nervous.
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Most of the bad things that happen to
people's voices won't happen to you
again. It's the nerves that make us speak
too quickly to softly put
doubts, question marks at the end of the
sentence and all those other things.
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So that's the number one thing you can
really do to bring out the full
natural resonance of your voice.
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And it's easy.
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Everyone's got technology.
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You're surrounded by video cameras, audio
recorders do
that and you will be in great shape.