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Let's hop right in. The first thing you have
to do if you want to improve your voice is
you have to really diagnose it and make sure
we know exactly what the
problems are. That means you're going to
have to record your voice and listen to it.
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These days, it's very simple to do.
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Every smartphone has an audio recorder.
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Your webcam will do it.
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Nothing else. Call your own phone and leave
a voicemail, and you can hear it for
yourself. Now, chances are you have heard
your voice before, and that's what's
made you decide you don't like it.
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A word of caution.
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Most people don't like the sound of their
own voice.
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And here's why.
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We're used to hearing our own voice all day
long, filtered through the
bones and flesh in our skull.
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So we're hearing our own voice in a
profoundly distorted way.
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But when you hear your voice coming through
speakers on a cell
phone, on speakers on the other side of the
room, you're hearing it in a way
that's much less distorted because it's not
going through bones, it's not going through
flesh. It's just going through the air.
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That's how everyone else hears your voice.
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Now, again, you wouldn't be in this course
if you didn't dislike your voice.
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But I want to throw one possibility out in
front of you.
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The problem might not be that you have a bad
voice.
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The problem might actually be that you're
simply not used to
hearing your voice.
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And if you simply heard it more, then you'd
get used to it.
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It wouldn't seem strange or alien.
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So here's your first homework assignment.
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I need you to record yourself talking.
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Maybe just record a phone conversation with
someone.
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I wouldn't try to read from a phone book
because that's likely to sound very
mechanical. But just talk to someone.
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Talk to a friend or family member, talk to a
business colleague and record
it on audio.
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So that's the first step.
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Just get a minute, preferably 2 minutes.
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Let's really get it all down.
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Don't listen to it yet.
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I'll tell you what to do in the next
lecture.