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So you've listened to your voice.
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Ideally, you've heard something that struck
you as more interesting this time.
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Greater range in your voice.
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This is how you want to sound all the time
when you're talking to people, when you're
leaving voicemail messages, when you're
giving a speech, a presentation, when you're
having to talk to someone and it's a
slightly formal situation and you're a little
bit nervous. You've got to act a little.
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You've got to imitate somebody.
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But it's not me.
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It's not Bill Clinton or Ronald Reagan or
the movie
guy announcer.
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It's yourself when you are relaxed.
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The role model for most people of how they
should speak is how they
already talk when they're completely
comfortable, relaxed, talking to a friend
about something they're passionate about.
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Now, I don't mean the cursing if that's
something you do, but the full
range of your voice, the highs, the lows,
the louds, the soft.
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That's what makes someone interesting.
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That's what makes someone conversational.
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So if you're worried about your voice, in my
professional experience,
this solves almost all the problems people
have.
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Now. You might not still love your voice,
but you do need
to realize objectively that your voice is
perfectly fine for what you're trying to
do, unless you are trying to become a
voiceover artist again.
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We've addressed that.
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And unless you're trying to be a news anchor
for the CBS Morning News,
chances are your voice is going to be fine
if you just try to talk
the way you do when you're in normal
conversation.
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Now, here's the key.
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If you have an upcoming speech, a
presentation, a one on one talk, I
need you to take that script or the outline
or the
bullet points.
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Talk it out. And I need you to record it and
try
to sound as conversational and as
interesting.
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Is that talk with your friend when you had
perhaps forgotten about being recorded.
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Because here's the danger.
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A lot of times people start fixating on the
words and the next thing you know, the
volume is sort of the same and the speed is
the same and the pitch is the same.
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And wa, wa, wa, wa, wa.
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You sound like Charlie Brown's teacher, so
you're going to have
to figure out a way of having that same
conversational tone.
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And often that means practice, practice on
audio.
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And if you're giving a speech, I would of
course recommend that you practice on
video. So that's the next assignment right
now.
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And a moment I'm going to talk about things
people do that they think are helping
themselves get better but actually make them
worse.
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But for right now, I want you to focus on
giving some kind of prepared
statement, whether it's a voicemail message
you want to leave to someone, a speech, a
presentation, a PowerPoint.
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I want you to record it and try to make it
sound as good as the
previous one when you were just talking to a
friend.