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You've heard the old axiom.
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Tell them what you're going to tell them.
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Tell them and tell them what you told them.
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But is it true?
Is it effective?
You've heard this so called speaking law.
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I've heard it for years.
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However, I don't have any evidence to
suggest it's really effective.
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If you doubt me, ask yourself the following
question, How
many exit doors are there on a 747 or a 757?
Now, if you travel a great deal, chances are
you've been told this
hundreds of times because the airline
attendant will always tell you,
please pay. You know, here's how you fasten
a seatbelt, blah, blah, blah, blah.
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In case of emergency landing, they are x
number of exit
doors. Here's the problem.
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Any time I ask a group of people that ten
people, I get ten different answers.
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Everyone doesn't really remember.
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They have to guess. They guess differently.
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Here's my point.
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You've been told that message of how many
exit doors.
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There are numerous, numerous times.
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But because of the manner in which it's told
boring,
straightforward, perfunctory, no passion,
conveyer belt of
data, it goes in one ear and out the other.
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And that's my challenge to you.
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If you're giving a presentation, if you are
boring and straightforward, and you don't
have stories, and you don't have examples,
you can tell people what you're going to tell
them. You can tell them, you can tell them
what you told them.
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It won't make any difference.
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They're still not going to remember what you
said.
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You're far better off telling somebody one
idea one time,
but to do it in a way that's truly
memorable, that has an interesting
example, a case study, a compelling story,
tell
them one time and a compelling way they may
remember it for a
lifetime. Tell them three times in a speech
, and it's boring
, and they won't remember it 3 seconds later.